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		<title>Those Days Are Over</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 17:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alec McNayr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Put your hot tea down and go read Hugh MacLeod&#8217;s blog post fat dumb happy. Speaking about a friend&#8217;s relative who had to drop out of college, Hugh says&#8230; But even though the situa­tion clip­ped his wings con­si­de­rably, he still ended up having a nice life in the end, with a home, a big yard, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Put your hot tea down and go read Hugh MacLeod&#8217;s blog post <a href="http://gapingvoid.com/2009/11/08/fat-dumb-happy/">fat dumb happy</a>.</p>
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<p>Speaking about a friend&#8217;s relative who had to drop out of college, Hugh says&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>But even though the situa­tion clip­ped his wings con­si­de­rably, he still ended up having a nice life in the end, with a home, a big yard, two cars, a steady paycheck, wee­kends fishing or hun­ting deer, and vaca­tions in Hawaii every year or so. “The days where a blue collar guy like my uncle could have a nice life without doing much,” my friend said, “those days are gone. Gone forever.”</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve spent 10 years cobbling together a hodge-podge of skills that are now paying off in a way I never had expected.  Web design. Acting.  Comedy.  Photography.  Writing.  Late nights.  Little pretense.   It doesn&#8217;t feel like the kind of career/life/path my University degree led me to believe I&#8217;d get, and I bet it makes my parents worried.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s the kind of life that can give me a shot at living the kind of life Hugh describes: a normal, middle-class life.  And then the thought hits me: <strong>The lifestyle my parents thought was normal will be thought of as exceptional to my generation.</strong></p>
<p>My generation may have to work harder to get less.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s scary.  And incentivizing.  Get back to work.</p>
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		<title>Addicted to Not Doing the Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alec McNayr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago, I found myself with all kinds of angst about my career trajectory.  I was fully employed at a good job, doing creative projects on the side, but always stressed out about &#8220;what I was doing with my life.&#8221;  Maybe you have that problem, too.  I call it &#8220;your 20s.&#8221; What helps [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few years ago, I found myself with all kinds of angst about my career trajectory.  I was fully employed at a good job, doing creative projects on the side, but always stressed out about &#8220;what I was doing with my life.&#8221;  Maybe you have that problem, too.  I call it &#8220;your 20s.&#8221;</p>
<p>What helps me now?  A saying.</p>
<p><em>Do the work.  Do the work.</em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a mantra I picked up while doing an interview for <strong>Script Magazine</strong> (<a href="http://www.spaceshank.com/blog/2008/12/01/big-names-change-the-online-game/">&#8220;Big Names Change the Online Game&#8221;</a>).  I was talking to <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000868/">Justine Bateman</a>, <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0476294/">Jill Kushner</a>, and Wizards of Waverly Place EP <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0615373/">Peter Murrieta</a>, and during the interview, Peter took a call from what must have been a stressed-out, unsure understudy of his.  Like an AA sponsor to an addict about to take a sip, he said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t care if you&#8217;re tired, do the work.  If you&#8217;re frustrated, do the work.  If you&#8217;re sick, do the work.  No matter what, just do the work.&#8221;</p>
<p>It was probably the most poignant thing I personally received from the interview, and it happened in the background while trying to listen and take notes from Justine and Jill.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s some calming wisdom in those words.  That inborn talent matters little in the face of time.</p>
<p>When it comes to &#8220;honing your craft&#8221; or &#8220;getting good-er&#8221; or &#8220;putting in your &#8220;10,000 hours,&#8221; it&#8217;s all about getting better, step by step, at something that is really hard (like screenwriting, photography, lawyering, painting, negotiating, or anything that takes artistry).</p>
<p>Unfortunately, the AA analogy holds up.  <em><strong>We&#8217;re all a little addicted to &#8216;Not Doing the Work.&#8217;</strong></em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s just too easy to get distracted.  To go to bed early.  To have &#8220;weekends.&#8221;</p>
<p>However, the people that succeed in anything worthwhile find a way to overcome that addiction and do a little bit of work every day.  Find that nanometer of improvement.  Over time, it adds up.</p>
<p>As for me, I&#8217;m not too worried any longer.  I&#8217;m on a journey to improvement, and I don&#8217;t expect the fast results I did a few years back.  I can&#8217;t stress about it.  I&#8217;m too busy doing the work.</p>
<p>Further reading on this subject: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159184259X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=mcnayrcom&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=159184259X">Ignore Everybody: and 39 Other Keys to Creativity</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=mcnayrcom&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=159184259X" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Hugh MacLeod, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591841666?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=mcnayrcom&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1591841666">The Dip: A Little Book That Teaches You When to Quit (and When to Stick)</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=mcnayrcom&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1591841666" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Seth Godin, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0316017922?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=mcnayrcom&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0316017922">Outliers: The Story of Success</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=mcnayrcom&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0316017922" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Malcolm Gladwell (&#8220;10,000 hours&#8221;), and Stephen King&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743455967?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=mcnayrcom&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0743455967">On Writing</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=mcnayrcom&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0743455967" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> (&#8220;Get a closet and write there everyday.&#8221;).</p>
<p><em>[This is will be part of a series of posts under the <a href="http://alecmcnayr.com/category/pursuing-creativity/">Pursuing Creativity</a> banner.]</em></p>
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		<title>Start Blogging, Says Hugh</title>
		<link>http://alecmcnayr.com/2009/10/27/start-blogging-says-hugh/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 23:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alec McNayr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just quoted blogger/artist/marketer Hugh MacLeod in a proposal to a potential marketing client: Marketer and artist Hugh MacLeod writes in his book Ignore Everybody, “Put some of your ideas on a blog and ‘get it out there.’  Eventually the fish will start biting. Just remember that it doesn’t happen overnight.  It usually takes a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just quoted <a href="http://gapingvoid.com">blogger/artist/marketer Hugh MacLeod</a> in a proposal to a potential marketing client:</p>
<p><em> </em></p>
<blockquote><p>Marketer and artist Hugh MacLeod writes in his book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159184259X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=mcnayrcom&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=159184259X">Ignore Everybody</a>,<img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=mcnayrcom&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=159184259X" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em></p>
<p><em>“Put some of your ideas on a blog and ‘get it out there.’  Eventually the fish will start biting. Just remember that it doesn’t happen overnight.  It usually takes a couple of years of continual posting to build up enough trust to where people are willing to [buy from you consistently].  But you never know; it could be a couple of months.”</em></p></blockquote>
<p>So, I should take this opportunity to write a starting blog post.  I started this blog at <a href="http://alecmcnayr.com">alecmcnayr.com</a> to be a repository of all my online media, but maybe it can be more.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a partner at a <a href="http://spaceshank.com">production company</a>, a <a href="http://mcbeardmedia.com">social media company</a>, a co-writer at a <a href="http://historicaltweets.com/">humor blog that nabbed 2.5 million visitors in July</a>,  and through all that, I have a book coming out in April 2010, I&#8217;m actively pitching TV and Web series, and I have a handful of active marketing clients, including <a href="http://ovi.com">Nokia</a>, <a href="http://ucla.edu">UCLA</a>, and <a href="http://generositywater.org">Generosity Water</a>.  A multi-national corporation, a university, and a non-profit.</p>
<p>You&#8217;d think I would have learned to specialize.</p>
<p>Every time someone asks me what I do, I squint my eyes and try to formulate an answer.  I&#8217;m not prideful.  I&#8217;m probably more humble than I should be&#8230; I am just trying to contextualize why I do the creative things I do, and I never have a suitable answer.  Perhaps it&#8217;s just not that simple, or perhaps my personal confusion about my work complicates it.</p>
<p>Maybe I should just settle on <em>&#8220;I create things, some written, some visual.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>All that to say, I hope to use this blog as a forum to explore an answer to that question: &#8220;What do you do?&#8221;</p>
<p>I hope you find my thoughts interesting and perhaps use me as a sounding board for your creative endeavors.</p>
<p>Like I said, I&#8217;m reading Hugh MacLeod&#8217;s book.  He&#8217;s an older creative guy with a lot of wisdom and experience.  I&#8217;m less experienced, but just as creative.</p>
<p>So, if I&#8217;m asking the question&#8230; how would you answer?  <strong>What do YOU do?</strong></p>
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